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Political Analyst Asked Whether Kamala Harris Was 'Being Too Aggressive' During the Debate, and Twitter Made Him Absolutely Regret It

Democratic presidential candidate, California Senator Kamala Harris, at The Knight Concert Hall, Miami, Florida on Thursday, June 27, 2019 for the First Democratic Debate. (Photo by Gustavo Cabellero/NBC News/MSNBC/Telemundo)

California Senator Kamala Harris dominated on the second night of the first Democratic debate of 2020 presidential candidates according to many people who viewed the event. Harris—born in Oakland, California to a Tamil Indian mother and Jamaican father—is a former district attorney and state Attorney General.

Making her case was a skill Harris excelled at to rise to the level of success she did.


But Harris is still a woman and a person of color. And some people have outdated expectations for how women, especially women of color, are allowed to act and speak.

The tone policing of women of color is so pervasive that numerous sociological and psychological studies and articles have been completed on the subject.

So when political analyst Stuart Rothenberg's reaction to what many hailed as an exemplary performance was to ask...

"Is Harris being too aggressive?"

...people were not surprised.

But they were also not happy. And they let Rothenberg know.

Women definitely could relate to the situation.

Competent women who speak their mind often get labeled "aggressive" when their male counterparts are praised as being "assertive" and "ambitious" or a "go-getter" when displaying identical behavior.

The same reaction came from women over and over.

People called Rothenberg's hot take sexist.

Women were not appreciative of Rothenberg's impression or characterization of Harris.

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People advised Rothenberg to delete his post.

Several women shared the criticisms they often face, regarding whether they smile enough, their perceived tone or their clothing.

However one woman fell into that same trap of judging Harris on her appearance over her words.

But she was quickly checked for it.

And even those who agreed that Harris was aggressive rather than knowledgable or assertive, thought the inclusion of "too" was inappropriate for the job Harris is seeking.

At the end of the night, Rothenberg declared Harris and South Bend, Indiana mayor Pete Buttigieg the big winners.

The political analyst has yet to respond to the backlash over his characterization of Harris as aggressive.

To learn more about sexism, the project Everyday Sexism was established. After the success of the project, the book Everyday Sexism: The Project that Inspired a Worldwide Movement, available here, was created as a companion to the original project.

"The Everyday Sexism Project was founded by writer and activist Laura Bates in April 2012. It began life as a website where people could share their experiences of daily, normalized sexism, from street harassment to workplace discrimination to sexual assault and rape."

The book Underserved Women of Color, Voice, and Resistance: Claiming a Seat at the Table, available here, can help  allies understand daily life for women of color and advocate for them to be heard without the traditional judgments and obstacles they face.

"Women of color face unique social challenges that exist at the intersections of race, gender, class, and sexual orientation. While some challenges are common to women of color, others reflect the distinct journey each woman makes as she negotiates her identity within her family, professional circle, social and romantic relationships, and community. The editors have constructed a rich collection of voices in this work exploring the politics of women of color across various social contexts."